Living large is not the opposite of being small; rather it’s part of being small and flows from it.
When, by being small, you create room for other people who are near you, you do not limit the scope of your ability to live life to its fullest. In fact, you broaden that ability. Living in the flow lane and being aware give you an attitude that makes other people comfortable in your presence. It also give you the ability to appreciate the moment and take advantage of opportunities for joy and contentment. If you become a real part of the world you live in you will be living large. You’re living large because you are not skimming along and trying to get through from day to day, but are feeling and embracing life and all it has to offer, which I think you will find, has mostly to do with maximizing the joy that being with others in a loving, non-threatening environment brings.